Sandi Toksvig says it all

The writer and broadcaster, Sandi Toksvig who chaired a panel on Gay Icons was quoted in the Guardian (27/3/09) as saying of the "Gay community":
"I sometimes think we're joined together not by our sexuality but other people's reaction to it". As the Guardian put it: she conceded that she was representing a gay community that did not exist, in the same way a straight community did not exist.